Living paycheck to paycheck is loathsome. The best way to get out of this kind of system is to start saving and be smart in spending. Budget is the initial step to make savings and smart spending work. One trouble of many people is how to make ends meet and live within the budget. The start is full of enthusiasm but never sticking to the budget in the end. So what seems to be the problem and why many fail to follow the budget?

1.     There are no clear priorities in saving. Goal setting is the initial step in budgeting. Motivation is what everything keeps rolling. Budgeting becomes a chore, thus, you must have the motivation or eye on something you want. Budget helps you manage your expenses at this moment so you can buy things you want and have fun in the future. So ask yourself what you hope to get from your budgeting experience?

2.     Setting unrealistic target is a bad start. To get started, try to track your expense at least one month. In this way, you will be able to gauge how much will be your savings and what are your major expenses. Supposing 40% of you paycheck goes to your mortgage, 20% for debt payments, 15% for food, 5% for utilities, 5% for transportation and 5% for other miscellaneous expenses. You have 10% left on your take-home pay for your savings. There are many budget worksheets online that are free to use. I personally use one of the spreadsheets in Budgets are Sexy.

3.     Do not quit too soon. Succesful budgeting takes time. Accept failures and learn from your mistakes. Stick with your motivation and goals to achieve your budget. Think always that you want to stop from living from paycheck to paycheck. For sure, in the end, your successes will outnumber your failures.

Taking control of your money will lead you to a thorough analysis of your spending. Seeing where your money goes and figuring out how to plug the leaks. Budgeting is the key to achieve financial security. Start a good way of saving money and be smart in spending your hard-earned money.
 
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Last year, I wrote an article in an online directory about freelance writing as a passion and a part-time gig for a working mom. Today, I would like to share this article and may this serve as an inspiration to all mothers out there who like to take a dive in a world of freelance jobs.


Freelance Writing As a Part-Time Gig For a Working Mom
Being a working mom is not easy. One has to consistently monitor the cash inflows of the family. Raising kids means increasing expenses and increasing your investments. It is important to always expand the passive income.

A couple of months ago, I found a really good paying part-time job suitable for working moms who are looking for additional income. I came across a forum and the poster was looking for a part-time article writer. So, instead of spending hours browsing on the internet, I took the job and wrote five articles. After five articles, another five came. This just happened in a matter of days. After more than a week, another twenty articles were requested. I was just so happy! My PayPal account balance suddenly moves.

My writing interests increased again when I started to have writing projects. Researching, writing and reading. These three are the tasks that give free flowing ideas. I'd say writing stimulates my mind. Actually, it is very addicting. After each project, I wanted more and more. I want to have a continuous project. Honestly, I have stopped writing after I graduated college. Stepping the real corporate world and facing my profession stopped me from writing. Writing became less demanding since my work required me to be more analytical and reports are repetitive periodically.

My search for additional income as a working mother helped me realized that aside from reading, I love freelance writing. My very first client is very supportive up to now. I actually had a foreign client and requested my writing services and I was just referred.

There is no harm in trying for any job. As long as it pays and credible then, it's good to start. Any moms looking for part-time work is easy. As long as there is a will of finding one, there is always a way of landing the right one.

 
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I totally envy couples who both share their passion in planning for their future.

My husband is an Architect and I am an Accountant. When it comes to saving plans, I do all the planning. When baby arrived, I shopped for the best Term Insurance. My reason is to protect our child. Whatever happens to any of us, we are both insured and our child will be supported until he finishes his college. 


Well, since hubby doesn’t know anything about insurance, I took the liberty of choosing the right plan for him because boys will always be boys. Men prefer to talk and read about their collection toys instead of reading about investments and passive incomes!  So, I have been thinking maybe we are really made for each other. Shortcomings of any one of us will be delivered by the other one. Well, honestly, I don’t know anything about pets or sports but hubby does. I don’t know anything about cars, but he does. I don’t have any leisure, expensive hobbies (except buying books!) but hubby shares his hobbies and ideas to me. He brings me to places to relax. Therefore, everything is in balance. 

To show you how different our minds work, here is an example:
ME                                                                                          HIM
Plan to get term insurance for both of us at low cost       He plans to buy Jordan Nike or Lacoste shoes
I plan to invest in Variable Life Insurance                        He plans to buy a brand new car
I want open another new savings for child                       He plans to upgrade his computer

The good thing really is that my husband is a good provider. He supports me with all my investing /savings plan and gives his share of income. He trusts me with this task J On the other side, whenever he wants to buy another toy for himself, I just couldn’t take it! I always ask, “Do you really really need that? How much will that give to you in return?”

Above is just a sample of men vs. women ways of doing things but in the end wives take the work that husbands forget to include in their itineraries in life.